A student is dysregulated, yelling, throwing materials, or completely shut down—and the whole class is watching. You need tools that work in the moment and build long-term self-control. Top self-control tools: 1.  Calming Corner 2.0 Not just pillows—add a “Control Console” with choices: squeeze ball, breathing card, noise-canceling headphones, timer (5 minutes max), and a feelings menu to point to. 2.  5-Finger Breathing Trace up each finger while breathing in, down while bre